Who are OK and who are not, is not always shown by appearances. They may be deceiving. To estimate another, you are free to judge his or her words, but always take into account that long-range actions tend to speak louder than words, and that the stable settings that persons accommodate to, speak more.
Personality continues to change, also after you reach thirty. For example, people tend to get more conscientious as they get older. But it is also true that individuals may not be captured by the general trends derived from analyses of large numbers of people, from such averaged generalisations. Yet, keep in mind that generalisations hardly apply to all people.
For all that, "most human personality traits can be boiled down to five broad dimensions of personality, regardless of language or culture." It is done by something called factor analysis. The five dimensions that have emerged from statistical data analyses, are at times compared with five "big buckets" (groups). They are the Big Five, that make up the OCEAN (an acronym). This Five Factor Model is FFM, in short. Since the 1990s the consensus of psychologists have gradually came to support the Big Five.
It allows for renaming the factors, as will be shown below. The first letters of the five factors - Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism - give the acronyms of OCEAN (and CANOE if rearranged). Neuroticism is sometimes called Emotional Stability, and also "Need for Stability". There is some disagreement about how to interpret the Openness factor - called "Originality" below, and "Intellect" by others.
Each of the five factors consists of a cluster of more specific traits that correlate together. The Big Five is currently the most reliable and well-validated system of trait description. Feel free to think, "The Big 5 - fit for times of peace, more unfit for war, perhaps", because openness and agreeableness may hinder combatting, and extroversion too may not fit secrecy making and desorientation (lying) that often goes along with outwardly successful warfare. Compare the traits below.
The "Big Five" (each trait exists on a high/low scale) is the most used current psychometric measurement perspective in personality psychology. The five dimensions, with alternate terms put in brackets - are:
Openness (Originality) - has to do with Culture, Originality, or Intellect - appreciation for art, emotion, adventure, unusual ideas, curiosity, and variety of experience
The order of the trait factors may be put in other ways too, but this one is good for learning the content through an acronym. Various descriptive traits are clustered to each of them. The Wikipedia (sv "Big Five personality traits) contains good information.
"Each of the Big Five dimensions is like a bucket that holds a set of traits that tend to occur together. The definitions of the five super factors represent an attempt to describe the common element among the traits, or sub-factors, within each "bucket." The most commonly accepted buckets of traits are those developed by Costa and McCrae (1992) . . . For use in the business community, some of the terms need to be modified. Specifically, the term "Neuroticism" needs to be changed to "Negative Emotionality", wrote Pierce J. Howard and Jane M. Howard back in 2002. in their Big Five Quickstart. [৺Link].
In the following table I have put the labels of the five factors that Howard and Howard have taken to, first, and it reflects the value I find in the terms too: I find the new heading terminology more satisfactory, except for the "Need for Stability" factor, where the two labels may be fairly equal in describing what the factor is about.
There is much to learn about each factor. Howard and Howard (above) goes into the most prominent sides to that.
Neurotics Is Renamed for the Sake of Selling the System Better
The Big Five has become quite a standard framework for going into individual differences. However, the term "Neuroticm" did not sell well among business leaders and others in "the sea of sharks" - the business world of large international corporations, which some call psychopathic, even. Thus, The Corporation, in a 2003 Canadian documentary film that considers the modern-day corporation as a class of person and evaluates its behaviour towards society and the world at large as a psychologist might evaluate an ordinary person, professor Robert Hare uses diagnostic criteria of psychopaths to assess the profile of the contemporary profitable North American business corporation. In the film we are shown parallels between corporate legal misbehaviour (malfeasance) and standard symptoms of psychopathy: callous disregard for the feelings of other people, the incapacity to maintain human relationships, reckless disregard for the safety of others, deceitfulness (continual lying to deceive for profit), the incapacity to experience guilt, and the failure to conform to social norms and respect for the law. [Wikipedia, sv "The Corporation"]
To revert to the Big Five: Since much personality councelling is adapted to career making in the tough business world and those who adapt to it, you may come across the more palatable "Need for Stability" instead of the blunt term "Neuroticism". Further, in this "bucket" some are called "reactive", others "responsive", and others "resilient", and each of these gradations of the stability continuum is further described by the four subfactors of "sensitiveness", "intensity", "interpretation", and "rebound time". It makes sense to me.
To fill in a bit, the reactive (also termed neurotic) is the one who has more negative emotions than most people and reports less satisfaction with life than most people. On the other end the need for stability glide-scale, the resilients tend to be more rational at work than most people and appear rather impervious sometimes. In the midfield between reactive and resilient is the vast middle range of responsives with a mixture of qualities that mark resilients and reactives.
Outlooks from many personality theories may be compared and discussed by fitting them in the outlook and agreed-on vocabulary of the Big Five. For example, the Id, the Ego, and the Superego may be described in terms of low, medium, and high Conscientiousness, but it may not be easy to see how meaningful it is to alter things like that.
Frank Fujita (1991) finds that the Big Five is not perfectly inclusive; there is more to the personality that is left to describe. The Big Five fail to capture independence, maturity, gender, and attractiveness - and also individuation, physical characteristics, and traditional values. [৺Link]
Moreover, Religiosity, Manipulativeness/Machiavellianism, Honesty, Thriftiness, Conservativeness, Masculinity/Femininity, Snobbishness, Sense of humour, Identity, Self-concept, and Motivation are neglected or not well explained by the Big Five model as well.
Further, the five factors are not fully independent of one another. For example, if you experience negative emotions you may get less talkative and outgoing.
The Five Factor Model depends on analyst interpretation also, and depends in some cases on self-reports, which may be highly opinionated.
You may wonder what is new about the Big Five as compared to the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), since the training community has generally followed the assumptions of the MBTI for three decades.
Well, (1) whereas the MBTI operates with four buckets (dimensions of personality), the Big Five has five. (2) Whereas the MBTI has but two ways of speaking about scores - the Big Five has a graded distribution of scores, which is a vast betterment. (3) The MBTI uses sixteen gross type concepts, but the Big Five have dropped the type concept altogether, and instead puts emphasis on individual traits, which is better too. And finally, the Big Five is not grounded in someone's (pet) theory, but on experience. To sum up this and one more factor:
The Big Five involves:
The Big Five has evolved substantially from MBTI, and differs enough from it to require a shift in thinking, write Howard and Howard in The Big Five Quickstart. Further, the MBTI is not reliable, affirms Pittenger (1993): It lacks documentation for being reliable and valid, and the test should not be used for career planning, concludes the Army Research Institute in the USA. (Pittinger 1993).
The variety of personalities is far from understood well enough by sixteen postulated, ready-made groups; personalities are more complex than that. Unique qualities of the individual are not fairly accessed by MBTI scores.
Factor analysis of the MBTI has not furnished convincing documentation of good correspondence between the test questions and the four claimed "dimensions" behind it.
Evidence that the MBTI shows lasting personality traits, is missing too.
Any correspondence between MBTI type and career success has not been found either.
There is no documentation that the MBTI measures anything of value at all, Pittinger informs. Despite that, the MBTI is much used.
"What is it, Lassie? A boy fell down a mine shaft and broke his ankle and is
diabetic and needs insulin? Is THAT what you're trying to tell me?"
The movie character Lassie's OCEAN's criteria seem to be - and this is not too serious, and it is simplied too:
OPENNESS: The dog tolerates and explores the unfamiliar in episode after episode, might be a little bit curious too. This bodes well.
The OCEAN parameters seem to describe a movie star's features and some of the features of the properly trained collie too. The question is: Is that your ideal self if you are not a dog and do not aspire for a dog's life?
In figure 1 a rough collie's OCEAN data are suggested. A continuum between -5 and +5 is divided into ten sections. To read the columns: 5 is maximum, 0 is "neutral", etc. However, a big part of the description of a "multiple dog", that is, several dogs portraying one Lassie in this case, depends on what it is trained to do, and how. So this bar chart is of little value outside that faking screen of trained dogs and film clippings over and over.
Diagnostic Criteria for Narcissitic Personality Disorder
Core Definition of the Disorder: "A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of following:
I may add: In most cases of sensed, "intutive" evaluations, the Likert scale is much better and safer to use than the mere yes/no response, evidently. In a very suitable form the responses to choose among on a Likert scale are:
The responses are allotted numbers, the numbers are next added, and then you may compare responses to an agreed-on key or table that furnishes quite averaged "boxes".
However, for the narcissism disorder such a nuanced solution has not come to my ears, so I leave you with the add the factors to say 'yes' to and see of you "break water" or come under the limit. Good luck.
For Some Cult Members
SRF, an international church society headquartered in the USA, is reportedly called a cult by a former SRF editor-in-chief, Tara Mata. Compare also [◦Belgian list of movements, including cults and sects]
It is not enough to be called a cult or classified as a cult by some to really and truly be one. There are some hallmarks that tend to reveal if a religious or semi-religious group is a cult or hardly so. Besides, there are hard cults and more mellow ones. And the large society is no model of perfection either, and the average-looking person may not be a paragon of virtues, or all right. Many have commented on that last point, including the drs Erich Fromm and Abraham Maslow.
So different people evaluate SRF differently, like it or not.
To the degree the worldwide SRF is a cult - the narcissism points 2, 3, 5, 8, and 9 (below) could be latent or at work in the open for not a few members. It depends on who and how you are too. There are some narcissist factors one might want to investigate on top of several individual verdicts of former SRF monastics and other SRF members. The factors:
2. Fantasies of ideal love: In a cult like SRF (Self-Realization Fellowship) much of the liturgy revolves around crying to God Mother to get her love - loving God is part of its ritual. It may breed depressons and much else, and is quite an example and may reveal exclusiveness of attitutes (cf. point 9) in some in addition.
3. Being unique and of a high class with its associations: It is taught in SRF that those who get initiated are specially favoured, have particularly good karma, and most others may have to be left outside of those much favoured circles, maybe for lifetimes.
The idea of staying away from others is taken so far in monastic circles as they tend to retire from contact with lay members. A previous leader of SRF, Daya Mata (1914-2010), also lived in another place than other SRF monastics for thirty years without their knowing (!). After those news broke out, one third of the SRF monastics left the premises too, for some reason or other.
5. Self-entitlement compliance: The founding guru entitled his own gurus "divine descensions", avatars, and so many Christs, and members comply with such perhaps megalomanously given titles.
7. Recognising feelings of others outside - maybe.
8. May be envious of others who live freely, are free to doubt and think freely, have sex copiously and not as guru-advised, and so on.
9. Arrogant attitudes: It depends.
I also consider that cult and sect members by and by may get turned into narcissists if they were not in the first place. One could also suspect a cult member to be a narcissist before entering his or her favoured group of belongingness, although gullibility and tomfoolery may account for more in these waters too.
What do we do with narcissists?
That is the question. "Nothing," is an answer, as one old method is to stay away from them (as cult members) altogether. But in that way you do not learn a lot about them either, or do not learn to differentiate between the cult members, and do not get good chances to correct possible wrong views.
Pittenger, David J. "Measuring the MBTI and Coming Up Short." Journal of Career Planning & Placement. Hausten 1993. On-line (PDF). [◦Link] also in Robert Todd Carroll. "Myers-Briggs Type Indicator". The Skeptic's Dictionary. 2007. [skepdic.com/myersb.html]
Ronningstam, Elsa. Identifying and Understanding the Narcissistic Personality. New York: Oxford University Press, 2005. —— Although you cannot help them you can understand their disorder somewhat. Narcissists have been much maligned, but there are productive narcissists who succeed well in life, some clinicians hold. Elsa Ronningstam has studied and treated narcissists for 20 years. In this clinical and empirical guide - for most part written for clinicians - she reviews what goes into the narcissistic personality disorder. A personality trait can be productive or destructive, despite a tug of war between self-confidence and arrogance on the one hand and painful shame and insecurity on the other. -- Books on this disorder can be hard to find, but here is a well-informed one.
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