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"Compliment yourself unconditionally just for being yourself, and
conditionally for your very real achievement. . . . No matter how painful, it must be
dealt with." - Dr Muriel James. ContentsBriefing
"With brutal parents many children feel frightened and angry, but often try to
hide their feelings out of fear.
With overindulgent parents, many children feel powerful when having a rebellious
temper tantrum to get what they want.
With inconsistent parents, many children discover that if they whine and beg
they stand a 50-50 chance of either being spanked or getting what they want." - Dr Muriel
James [p. 32]
Sage Words
Transactional Analysis (TA) brings a theory of social intercourse, and contained in it is
a specific [Neo-Freudian] theory of personality that revolves around what is called ego
states. These personality instances may be the Freudian id (TA Child), ego (TA
Adult); and superego (TA Parent) in new wordings; they closely resemble the Freudian key
concepts. - TK.TA, which was originally created as a psychiatric theory and practice, and evolved into a psychotherapy of analysed transactions between people, has proved valuable in different settings in several countries. TA can be used for understanding and improving communication, and has proved to help a lot as a tool in management and communications. One of its elements is mutual contracting for growth and change as defined or understood. It shows (hidden) respect for a common humanity of people. One may seldom find a better tendentious "definition" than this one: "Whatever deals with ego states is transactional analysis, and whatever overlooks them is not." - Eric Berne, in Sex in Human Loving. Berne, Eric. Sex in Human Loving. Harmondsworth: Penguin, 1973. Transactional Analysis in Psychotherapy. New York: Grove, 1971. James, Muriel. Transactional Analysis for Moms and Dads. Reading: Addison-Wesley, 1974.
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