If you catch fish, you're a fisherman. [American proverb]
You are often free enough to stroke people with words or let it be. [Cf. F. Scott Fitzgerald]
One should refrain from ingesting unsavoury, unhealth-bringing teachings that could serve top dogs or bosses without a heart, and blind guides and wolves that lead to downfalls. Instead of that, try to stick to your family first of all. Love might flourish and even grow that way, for one thing.