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THE FOLLOWING axioms take off from English proverbs on the subject. The reference
is Rosalind Fergusson's Dictionary of Proverbs, pages 1 and 2. It's given the
reference [Dp 1-2]. See below. The question is whether you can learn anything from such
sayings. They are neater than many proverbs, and may look a bit like sayings of Confucius
(Kongfu) too.
1 The frisk
and salty tend to be reckoned with as strong - The friend that's absent is
forgotten as his influence is dwarfed. No real friends should
play dead to be considered strong. The frisk and salt sea voyage
can help reduce both first love and blunders. ◊
2 The absent party can
seldom afford big passions Those far, far away are seldom seen for what they really
are. The absent part that hates you, seems beaten.
Well knows the fuzzy mouse the changes of a friend. ◊
Long absence and guilt can change a friend or four. It
happens that very great passions also blame former good friends at a distance.
To be in the wrong should work best from a distance.
3 It should
be far, far better just to be absent than to feign good at a distance
The very absent passions are never the great ones. It's
always better to blame friends at a distance. To be good
tends to bring about absence later on. [TTT: 2.1]
In a nutshell
We sum up the glide or general, provable stream by over-all looks
(considerations) that may seem correct enough somehow. It's often possible to form
several nutshell-takes (carefully stratified lessons), not just one and two. Here are
first suggestions:

- The frisk and salty elements can be be reckoned with as strong.
- The absent party can seldom afford big passions.
- It should be far better just to
be absent than to feign good at a distance.
More implications
Maybe the frisk and salty one (in general) had better stay away from conform
settings where they must feign (or only feign and copy) to look good.

A LOT of people would insist that missing craftsmen at times is a big and
over-arching problem, and that there are more facets and nuances to it than that the
plumber or carpenter decide to play dead - maybe figurative, one way or other.
1 The frisk
and salty carpenters tend to be reckoned with as strong, the others hardly
that - The carpenter and brick-layer that are only absent, are forgotten as
their influence abates somehow. No good masons should play dead
(on the site or when you need them on the phone) to be considered strong.
The frisk and salt sea voyage can help reduce both all right love and blunders,
once the [horrible and over-expensive] masons are out of the house. [You don't know how
true it is -] ◊
2 The
strongly absent carport-maker can seldom afford big passions when he makes up
excuses. Those carport-makers that only are far, far away are seldom seen for what
they really are. The truant carpenter that hates you for
withholding his pay, he could even be beaten (somehow). Well knows
the fuzzy brick-layer that the wind of friendships may change as he makes ever greater
mistakes. ◊ Long absence and guilt can change the firms'
employees for better or worse [Strikes do happen]. It happens that
very great passions also blame the great carpenters in solidly unfair ways at a
distance. For the carport-maker to be in the wrong should work
best from a distance.
3 It should
be far, far better if the horrible tile-laying expert just is absent rather than feigning
good at a distance
The carport-maker's very absent passions for a lot of work are never seen as his
great ones among those who contract him.
It can be safer and work better to blame one's carpenters when their
important jobs are over, and keeping some distance since.
To be good to hired hands tends to bring about their absence later on.
Here's all-round counsel on dealing with a lot of carpenters. You may not have seen
it, but the counsel may pertain all right to plumbers too
We think these cruxes hold water fairly well. To use parts of them as your own
standards requires that you also carry the expences and do it all at your own risk. The
rewards may be withheld, also. Strange company has that "force", so to speak.
Now, what do you think? There are good chances that you may get better
rapport with conform ones (another Taurean "thing") by substituting a lot for it.
Replace "carport-maker" with "conform fellow" and get another surprise on top of the tick
tack toe systemics.. It's here to aid and help beginners in the art of living and handling
- eh - carport-makers.
I don't look down on all conformists, for there is good conformism to live up to too. The doings and whereabouts of conformists are the wheels and cogwheels in the
machine that takes us further. These tender suggestions could apply for the playful artist
that slowly learns to make use of typified, set ways in what is to be his trade for
living, perhaps. And they may also seem much plausible for the one that masters the finest
educational psychology. May I suggest a standard textbook by Dr. Lee Croonbach here. It's
good for beginners, even if it's a bit outdated now. It's one of the finest university
textbooks in educational psychology ever written. Reading through it you may see the
sentences we've come up with, often fit a lot. This was to hint at that you may derive
benefits here and on our other sites. The benefits may seldom come quickly and easy along,
but deeply relevant suggestions should bring about beneficial, perhaps slow changes of
attitudes first. Much else can appear on top of that. [Pseb]
You will also note much congruence with the two foregoing tick tack toe
studies, which was intended. We've shown variations on top of British insight, strained
and arranged parts of it thanks to artistic skills (and in part such education, it is
granted). And the net results consist in very handy lessons that can rise to serve you in
your cot or mansion. It helps to get aligned to old or well-established or custom's wisdom
from the quarters you're inside, is the bet.
Find the conformist denuded through nutshell expressions below:
1 The frisk
and salty conform man tend to be reckoned with as strong, right or wrong The
conformist that's absent is forgotten soon enough, and his influence fades and gets
levelled. No real conformist should need to play dead to be
reckoned with as strong. The frisk and salt sea voyage can help
reduce both first love and blunders of too conform ones. ◊
2 The absent
conform ones can seldom afford big passions
Those conform guys that live very far away are seldom seen and noted at
all.
The absent or unmet conformist that hates you, seems beaten by others
somehow. Well detects the gullible conform man-eater the changes
of a friend. ◊ Long absence and guilt can change a
conformist buddy for the worse. He may get vain also. It happens
that very great passions in the nearest conformist also blame former allies at a distance
or in a pucker (Perhaps we shouldn't expect real and solid justness from a mere conformist
- he is seldom that developed, they say). For the conform man to
be in the wrong and found out, happens to work best from a distance.
3 It could work better
if the conform man just kept his distance rather than striving to look good "at a
distance" (including by distance-making)
The very
absent passions in conformists are never the strong passions of great minds and artists.
We should note that.
It's always better to blame many assembled conformist and a mob at a solid
distance. A huge and solid brick wall is also of merit to some.
To be good to a conformist tends to make that one strangely remote or even
physically absent later on. There is good enough reason to think that in a
conform buddy over half of his seemingly strong emotions are feigned to appear appropriate
somehow, one way or other. Think of that.

Literature
Acom: Bruner, Jerome: Acts of Meaning (the Jerusalem-Harvard lectures).
Harvard University. Cambridge, 1990.
Bign: Bruner, Jerome: Beyond the Information Given: Studies in the Psychology
of Knowing. Selected, edited, and introduced by Jeremey Anglin. Allen and Unwin,
London, 1974.
Dp: Fergusson, Rosalind: The Penguin Dictionary of Proverbs. Penguin.
Harmondsworth, 1983.
Proe: Bruner, Jerome: The Process of Education. Harvard University.
Cambridge. 1966.
Pseb: Cronbach, Lee: Educational Psychology. 2nd ed. Hart-Davis. London,
1963.
Roe: Bruner, Jerome: The Relevance of Education. Edited by Anita Gil.
Allen and Unwin. London, 1972.
Tato: Bruner, Jerome: Toward a Theory of Instruction. Harvard University,
Cambridge, Mass, 1966.
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