If a hornet you are, be a positive one.
Yogananda meant an organisation was "a hornet's nest" of troubles (Autobiography, Chap. 27) Then he started one. What did he find?
If he meant his devoted followers were wasps, some them might have cited Shakespeare to him: "If I be waspish, best beware my sting. (William Shakespeare in The Taming of the Shrew).
Well, ater raising his own wasps with his hand in the wasp's nest for some time, the guru retired to a desert fringe for the last years of his life. There he sat most of the time, and concluded that every man in America had disappointed him, all but one.
I have done such a horrible act like eating feces by starting an organization."
The first citation above is still in view on that site, but the second is not (It was in the page's source file, though (April 2017). An intact copy of the last part above is still around. So: "No documentation problem so far."
Wasps may tell you, "We are good," and things like that. Regardless of the public front, so to speak, about fifty years after Yogananda's passing, SRF was not a peaceful haven all the same. Lola Williamson writes:
SRF is hierarchical in its approach with the Board [of management] essentially controlling the decision-making process. Former disgruntled members of SRF credit this top-down mentality with creating an unhealthy organization. (Williamson 2010:75)
"Between 2000 and 2005 more than fifty monks and nuns are reported to have left the organization," writes attorney Jon Parsons (2012:170). More or less enervated ex monastics and others with them contributed to a large discussion board online, the SRF Walrus. It has folded in by now, but a backup from 2006 exists. [SRF Walrus Backup]
Learn wisdom by the follies of others (American proverb, Mieder et al 1996:366].
If not, there could be cognitive therapy to try, or something else to go for, as when "A person looking over his life might experience sadness at the wasted opportunities." (Neenan and Dryden 2004:11).
An organisation should ideally nurture winning activity and cater to (some) higher truths without much nonsense. If solid and well founded, it could nurse future leaders. This outlook conforms with the old Vedic student ashrama (life stage) too, and spiritual ashrams headed by a kind, loving gurudev.
If a human wasp you are, still focus on the positive in every situation. So think positively, stay positive. Believe you can and you're halfway there, and good things and good people may start to be drawn to you. Replace negative thoughts with positive ones. And if you cannot stay positive, just cruise neutral for a while and see opportunities instead of obstacles.
The more you are positive and say, 'I want a good life,' the more you build it. Still, be realistic enough to know that life is a complex matter. And then live each day rather than saying it cannot be done. Don't worry about failures, worry about the chances you miss in an environment that makes good choices easy, natural, and enjoyable.
Yes, surround yourself with positive, warm and genuine people and discipline your mind to see the good in every situation. A wasp than can bring the spirit of laughter into a room is a blessed wasp that will make people feel comfortable. Don't waste your time. Don't overstretch either. Bring out the best in you, and the world could be a much better place.
Mieder, Wolfgang (main ed.), Stewart A. Kingsbury, and Kelsie E. Harder: A Dictionary of American Proverbs. (Paperback) New York: Oxford University Press, 1996.
Neenan, Michael, and Windy Dryden. Cognitive Therapy: 100 Key Points. Hove, East Sussex: Brunner-Routledge, 2004.
Parsons, Jon R. A Fight For Religious Freedom: A Lawyer's Personal Account of Copyrights, Karma and Dharmic Litigation. Nevada City, CA: Crystal Clarity, 2012.
Williamson, Lola. Transcendent in America: Hindu-Inspired Meditation Movements as New Religion. London: New York University Press, 2010.
Yogananda, Paramahansa. Man's Eternal Quest. Los Angeles: Self-Realization Fellowship, 1975.
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