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Fit for Great Wealth and Happiness |
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Fit for Great Wealth and Happiness
Here we find family morality expressed in most elegant verses. A happier household life should be won after following these injunctions some time and making essential conditions fruitful. At least three more ancient suttas expound a life fit for progress of laypersons. They are:
[Buddha said:] "Not to associate with the foolish [1], but to associate with the wise; and to honour those who are worthy of honour. 1. The foolish are not only to the stupid and uncultured, but also the depraved and wicked in thought, word and deed.To live in a suitable place [2], to have done meritorious actions in the past and to set oneself in the right course [3] 2. Where good people live and do good, (the ten meritorious deeds, where sound righteousness and gist conforming to Buddha's teachings are living.To have much learning, to be skilful in handicraft [4] well-trained in discipline [5] and to be of good speech [6]. 4. Crafts endorsed to a Buddhist do not cause harm and injure living beings, with nothing unfair to them.To support mother and father, to cherish wife and children, and to be engaged in a peaceful occupation. To be generous in giving, to be righteous in conduct [7] to help one's relatives, and to be blameless in action. 7. Righteous conduct consists in doing good in thought, word and deed: freeing the mind of greed, ill-will and wrong views; avoiding speech that is untruthful, slanderous, abusive and [too] frivolous; and dropping acts of killing, stealing and sexual misconduct.To loathe more evil and abstain from it, to refrain from intoxicants [8] and to be steadfast in virtue. 8. Alcohol and non-prescribed drugs.To be respectful [9], humble, contented and grateful; and to listen to the Dhamma on due occasions. 9. Treating others with sufficient grace.[Proper] self-restraint [10], a holy and chaste life, the perception of the Noble Truths and the realisation of Nirvana. 10. Proper self-restraint is neither too lax nor too severe, and serves a deeper purpose: that of inner development and success enough in the world. Some aspects of sense-based living are all right as long as inner or dormant energies do not suffer. Regenerative acts, and doing what increases health reserves, are OK and should be pursued heartily. Basically, what is of the heart is usually fit.A mind unruffled by the vagaries of fortune [11] freed from sorrow, cleansed from defilements, liberated from fear. Basic conditions that conform to success should be aimed at. And gain, honour, praise, and joy are preferable to their counterparts.Those who live in such a way should get happy as time goes by. These are the thirty-eight blessings. Literature Based on Narada Thera, tr. "Maha-mangala Sutta". (Sutta Nipata, vv. 258-269). In The Light of the Dhamma. The Wheel Publication No. 14. Kandy, Sri Lanka: Buddhist Publication Society, 1985. On-line adaptation: Access to Insight edition 1995. [www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/narada/wheel014.html] USER'S GUIDE to abbreviations, the site's bibliography, letter codes, dictionaries, site design and navigation, tips for searching the site and page referrals. [LINK] DISCLAIMER: [LINK] © 20042008, Tormod Kinnes. All rights reserved. [E-MAIL] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||